Faith or fear: you choose

Whether or not you realize it, every day you choose Fear or you choose Faith. You either decide to believe that God is in control, (taking care of you, planning good things for you) or you go around worried about every circumstance you face, expecting the worst!

Faith and fear have one important thing in common. They both ask us to believe something we can’t see and that hasn’t happened yet. Knowing this can revolutionize your life!

Fear asks us to believe, for example: I’m not going to make it; I’m going to die; I’ll be alone for the rest of my life; God can’t help me so I’d better do something immediately…. 

Faith, on the other hand, asks of us: Keep trusting God; my breakthrough is right around the corner; this too will pass; I shall live and not die; the best is yet to come…. 

Who to believe

Notice that both faith and fear have a voice. Fear speaks negative things and faith speaks positive. You choose which voice you listen to, but remember that faith and fear can’t live in the same house. One will cancel out the other.

Hebrews 10:38 says, “Now the just shall live by faith; But if anyone draws back, My soul has no pleasure in him.” When we stop trusting God to care for us and deliver us from our problems, we displease Him. He withdraws from us. Faith attracts God’s presence, but fear repels it and attracts Satan’s demonic presence instead.

In choosing faith or fear, you choose who has greater influence in your life: God or Satan. Keep in mind that, in Luke 12:32, Jesus commands us not to fear.

What to do

• Give faith the last word! When you speak negative words over yourself or others, you prophesy bad results and seal your destiny. Counter what fear predicts with God’s promises and plans. Prophesy your godly, positive future by choosing to believe and speak the voice of faith.

• Meditate daily on what God promised — not on what the devil shows you. Thoughts we dwell on day and night become a reality. Constantly thinking and expressing fear will bring them into existence (Mark 11:22). Fear works like faith, but in reverse!

• Choose your friends wisely. Fear is contagious. People who worry constantly and talk negatively about their marriages, finances, children etc. are very dangerous to your spiritual health. Listening to their rhetoric will infect you with fear and will produce worry and anxiety in those same areas of our life. Be honest and help them by telling them the truth. But avoid close relationships with people like that like the plague!

• Faith your fears to death! What I mean is: Constantly talk to your fears with the promises of God. Learn and consistently talk the language of God, which is faith. Remember, let faith have the last word and eventually let faith be your ONLY word, no matter what fear shows you or says to you!

Faith your fear

Now, take the time to write down the things fear has been saying. Present them to God and ask Him to forgive you for listening to and believing them. Crush the paper in your hand and throw it in the garbage. Then start releasing your faith talk and commit to “faith-ing” your fears to death from now on!

Get out of that pit!

Pits. Sometimes you fall into one. Sometimes you’re pushed in by others. Sometimes you just plain old jump in! Regardless of how you got there, you can get out!

The pit is where your dream no longer seems possible; your marriage is destined for failure; your heart is broken and your life seems hopeless. It’s a place of debt, sickness, addiction, depression. Pits come in all forms and they do not discriminate.

Joseph was favored by his father, anointed by God and destined for greatness. Despite this winning combination, he found himself in a pit, thanks to some jealous brothers (Genesis 37).

Poised for a turnaround

Maybe that’s you. Changing seasons of life always provide new opportunities for failure. For those of us who center our lives on Jesus, there are also opportunities for a suddenly!  In one moment, everything can turn around!

Sound too good to be true? Read the Bible and you’ll realize that we serve the God of the suddenly, the God of the turnaround.

Joseph: suddenly taken from the pit to become second in command over the greatest nation of the world (Gen. 41). Daniel: suddenly delivered from the lion’s mouth (Daniel 6). The three Hebrew boys: suddenly delivered from a fiery furnace (Daniel 3). Jonah: suddenly released from the fish’s belly (Jonah 2). The disciples: suddenly catching a net-breaking, boat-sinking load of fish. And who can forget the classic story of Paul and Silas: suddenly set free from prison …by an earthquake (Acts 16).

Yes, yes and yes

What is the secret to their suddenlies? Can you experience a turnaround, a suddenly from your pit? The answer is absolutely yes, yes and yes! Here’s how:

1. Evaluate your situation and forgive yourself if you jumped in the pit by not trusting God or by your sinful actions. Forgive those who pushed you in. A pure heart (free from bitterness) invites God to bring a suddenly. While enslaved and in the pit, Joseph worked out forgiveness for his brothers. The condition of your heart can determine the length of time spent in the pit!

2. Obey God’s word. One act of obedience can open the windows of heaven and release your instantaneous turn around. Peter, the commercial fisherman, knew better than to fish in daylight because the nets cast a shadow that scare the fish. Nevertheless, Jesus spoke, Peter obeyed and suddenly!

3. Praise through the pain. Reuben was the brother that put Joseph in his pit, but Judah (meaning praise) got him out. Over and over we see the power of praise causing a suddenly to take place. Despite being mercilessly beaten and chained to a prison wall, Paul & Silas praised God so loudly their fellow prisoners heard them. Their praise wasn’t out of joy. It came out of their pain.

Desperation can be a good thing

A sudden instantaneous turn around is still God’s will for you. With these three steps you can and will experience a suddenly and come out of the pit. How desperate are you to come out? Oh yes! I need to add a fourth step and that is:

 4. Get desperate. Believe it or not, there are people in a pit today that aren’t ready to come out because they’re not sick and tired of being sick and tired. So ask yourself Am I desperate enough to be delivered?

Now that you know the steps to take, stop being pitiful and put on praise!…

Let go of destiny killers

Who are you connected to emotionally, spiritually and physically? Some of these people may be in your life by choice and others—maybe not. Ecclesiastes 4:9 tells us, “Two are better than one” because we benefit greatly from each other’s gifts and talents. However, not everyone will help you reach your God-given destiny. Some may actually kill your destiny!

Celebrate, but don’t idolize people

But I want to point out two things that are important to remember regarding our associations: 1). God divinely appoints people to help you, but 2). Wrong associations will kill your destiny.

1. God divinely appoints people in certain seasons of life to help you fulfill your destiny. Don’t be surprised if some of those in your life today don’t remain to finish the journey with you. They are intended to be with you for just that season. Knowing this will save you much grief. Trying to hold on to or reconnect with people God is removing from you wastes time and energy.

Be at peace. God knows what He is doing. He will divinely connect you with new relationships that will help you fulfill His destiny for you in the next season. So celebrate the people with you now, but don’t make idols out of them. God is your source, not man.

Let go of those divine assignments when the time comes. Don’t grieve over them. On the other hand, make room for, embrace and celebrate those who are newly assigned to you. Celebrate them as the Godly gift they are.

God prunes the fruitful

John 15:1-2 says, “I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit.” God prunes us, even when we’re already fruitful, so we can bring forth more fruit.

Holding on to old relationships will close the door to the new. If they can live without you, then you can live without them. (However, let me make it clear right now: I am not referring to marriage relationships!)

2. Wrong associations are destiny killers. Holding on to people God is trying to remove from your life opens the door for Satan to deceive and misdirect you. You and I exert tremendous influence over each other. That’s why you need to make sure you are under godly influences. Know that God is doing His best to help you remove ungodly ones. But it’s your choice to decide whom to let in.

Let go and let God

Many years ago, I kept running after someone whom God was removing. I believed I needed this person. I would always pursue them and talk them into coming back because my understanding of divinely-appointed relationships was zero at that time! I didn’t realize I had placed my trust in man, not God. Many things couldn’t happen in my life until I finally let go of that relationship.

Wrong associations can truly be destiny killers. So in conclusion I say: Fear God—not man. Let go and let God!


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The key to our nation’s greatness

The key to our nation’s greatness has been and always will be the strength and health of the family! I truly believe that the family is the cornerstone in the foundation of America’s preeminence.

The vision

I envision a time when once again we will see fathers and mothers who are committed to providing a healthy and loving atmosphere for their children—families where children are valued as gifts from God instead of excess baggage! The Lord’s heart aches (and so does mine) when I think about the 57 million babies we have aborted since 1973.

I envision a time when once again the dinner table will be a place where families bond with one another nightly, sharing their hearts; a place where godly values are passed down. The dinner table used to be the place where parents could connect with their kids, look into their eyes and discern how they were doing.

As the family goes…. so goes our nation!

Steps forward

Never before have the families of this nation been more under siege. The proof is seen in the number of broken marriages and fatherless or single-parent homes. There has been a redefining of marriage and many in our society mock and belittle family and marriage values. Children are being raised without the influence of Godly role models in their home or the media.

All of these factors and much more have led to a society overtaken by lawlessness, immorality and violence, especially in our younger generation.

WE MUST once again commit ourselves to action. Let’s put feet to our prayers and our rhetoric. Bring restoration to our families. We need to restore family values in our nation, one family at a time!

How to fight for our families:

  1. Elect officials that stand for Judeo-Christian values.
  2. Put your focus and attention on the needs of the precious gifts God has entrusted to you, your children. As mothers and fathers, husbands and wives, we must stop being selfish, thinking only about our own needs.
  3. Turn to God, the Creator of all things. It’s time. “If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.” (2 Chronicles 7:14)

As we rebuild the walls of protection and fight for our families, let’s remember Nehemiah. He had to confront a lot of opposition and distractions as he rebuilt the walls of the families of Jerusalem. But, he refused to be taken off his mission. In Nehemiah 6:3b he tells the enemy, “…..I am doing a great work, so that I cannot come down. Why should the work cease while I leave it and go down to you?”

That should be the battle cry in our fight to rebuild our families, restoring this nation back to greatness once again: “We are putting family first. We are doing a great work and we can’t come down!”


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Remove the mask

We all go through painful events in life; and our tendency is to sweep our feelings under the rug and ignore them—hoping they go away. However, failure to deal with our hurts and losses creates a perfect environment for depression and despair.

We may think that masking our true feelings protects our heart, but it doesn’t. Instead, it wounds our spirit, which affects every aspect of our lives. Hiding our hurts impacts our spirit, soul, thoughts, feelings and emotions, our physical health, our well-being and even our relationships. This emotional masking stunts our spiritual growth, emotional and mental maturity. It eventually hinders our intimacy with God and people.

We need to take off the masks and become transparent before God. Don’t be afraid to share your pain with Him. Bring Him your broken heart and He will bring His plan of restoration.

Let your Father protect you

In fact, when you are honest with God, He will protect you from making wrong choices. He will keep you connected to people whom He predestined to be part of your story and separate you from the rest.

Furthermore, He will give you wisdom and understanding. David told God in Psalm 51:6 “Behold, You desire truth in the inward parts, And in the hidden part You will make me to know wisdom.”

Enter into God’s joy, peace and happiness by embarking on what I call the Five D’s.

Practice the Five D’s

  1. Determine what sad experiences or significant losses from the past haven’t you faced. They can be things like divorce, death of parents, rejection, failures, false accusations, unjust criticism, thwarted goals or unrealized dreams. These feelings may be buried deep in your unconscious mind. But just because you don’t think about them doesn’t mean they don’t affect you today. They do.
  1. Discover the source of your masked pain through earnest prayer. Here’s an example: “Oh Father, let Your peace calm my troubled heart. Please make me aware of my need for healing and bring to my mind hurts I have masked and the circumstances that caused them.”
  1. Define your feelings with specific statements such as: “_________ made me feel like_______; I am grieving over________; I was so embarrassed when _______; I felt abandoned by_____; I was really hurt when _______; I determined to never let _____ happen again.” Pinpoint and define the hurts you’ve masked all this time. Let God take you out of denial and into inner healing. Make this your year to escape the heaviness you’ve been living with for so long.
  1. Decide to deeply and genuinely grieve your hurts. Release forgiveness to those who have hurt you and receive God’s forgiveness for holding anger or hatred. There is no justification for anyone with the nature of Jesus Christ to harbor these things. You may also need to forgive yourself for wrong choices that have perpetuated the pain. Ecclesiastes 3:1&7 says, “To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:….. A time to tear, And a time to sew; A time to keep silence, And a time to speak;”
  1. Deepen your dependence on God. Trust Him to give you emotional freedom. Allow the Holy Spirit to pray through you daily. He’s your physician, your medicine cabinet, and He has every antidote you need to make you whole. In fact, it’s His desire.

May the clouds of hopelessness and despair be lifted. May God’s wonderful plans for you be revealed. Remember, He supplied you with everything you need to accomplish them. But first, remove the mask.


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How to get out of debt, pt. 1

The way the economy is going, life is getting increasingly diffi­cult and the financial forecast doesn’t look very promising ei­ther. It’s obvious that things are about to get worse, but, how does God weigh in on all of this? Does He care about finances and does He offer any practical solutions to the problem of debt? Well first of all, Jesus spoke more about money than any other subject in the Bible. I know that’s shocking, but it’s true.

I believe Jesus highlighted the money issue because He knows that debt and poverty are manifestations of the kingdom of Satan. They are curses that are often carried down from generation to generation. Through money, the enemy attempts to control and hinder our lifestyles and ultimately our destiny.

It’s amazing how many of us are scrambling every day just to get enough money to live on, leaving us very little time for God. How ironic, since God is the true source of our lives! Matthew 6:33 says, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”

Let’s look at a few God-inspired principles to help alleviate debt and poverty in our lives. They are not in any particular order, but they point the way to apprehend God’s plan and strategy for us.

1. Believe He is a debt-canceling God. Mark 11:24 says,”Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.” He cancelled all of our debts on His cross two thousand years ago. In other words, believe that God wants to deliver you from poverty and cancel your debt. Nothing happens unless we believe.

2. All poverty and debt originates from sin. Any time you or your ancestors trusted in money and wealth to meet needs instead of God—that’s sin. First Timothy 6:10 says, “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sor­rows.”

Identify with the source of that sin, repent in the place of your ancestors and then repent for personal participation in that sin in your own life. Debt and poverty must be cut off at the root in order to break that cycle in your life. These two steps of identifica­tion and repentance are foundational to getting out of debt. For further explanation of this, please go to our website www.BreakingFreeCC.com and contact our office.

3. Review your spending habits: Is God in the decision-making when it comes to your spending habits? Many of us don’t allow God to be Lord over this area and we spend according to the lust of our flesh, not the leading of the Holy Spirit. If we examined our spending habits every day, we’d learn some shocking truths about our own heart.

List all of your spending for seven days, bring them before the Lord in prayer and ask Him if there needs to be any changes. If you’re sincere, you will probably see that radical change is necessary. That’s a good time to ask God’s forgiveness for your idolatry (putting money ahead of God).

These steps reveal your true desire to have poverty and debt broken over your life. A lot of us talk a good talk, but when it comes down to it, that’s all it is—talk. Getting out of debt requires a radical change in our view of money and our under­standing of God’s desire to be God (the only source) in and over our lives. We will continue this series next week.


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